Surviving a Breakup in Midland or Odessa

Going through a tough breakup can be difficult regardless of where you live.  However, for anyone going through it, living in Midland-Odessa can make the breakup hit a little different.

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Is Breaking Up In A Small Town/City More Difficult?

Many people believe that it is harder to break up in a small town or city.  But why?  Midland-Odessa consists of two small cities relatively close to one another.  Word can understandably travel fast.  It comes off as if people in the community all know one another.  This can lead to gossip about you and your situation among friend groups.  Then throw in the fact that the likelihood of running into your ex while out and about is kind of high, doesn't make it any easier.

Coping In A City Where Everyone Knows Your Business

There is no promised way to get over a failed relationship.  Each situation is different.  However, there are some measures you can take to take the edge off.

• Do NOT communicate on ANY level (unless you have to, such as a situation involving children)
• Do NOT communicate with known associates of your ex.  They oftentimes report your business to your ex.
• Do NOT watch their social media or social media stories.  The notification that they get that you are watching them isn't a good look.  Plus, how do you expect to move on when you keep them at arm's length or keep tabs on them?

• Unfollow or mute known friends, family, or associates on social media.
• Avoid Usual Hangouts (For now). Minimize situations where you could possibly run into them or their friends.
• Confide or speak to someone, whether professionally or personally.  Talking about how you are feeling can stir up painful memories or feelings.  However, it is better to face these feelings versus keep them inside.

Final Word

Breakups hurt; however, it is important to know that it does not have to define you.  Yes, living in Midland-Odessa, it can appear that all eyes are on you when you experience some kind of turmoil in your life.  At some point, life has to go on.  However, no one can tell you when you will finally move on.  That decision is entirely up to you.