Ask Midland Odessa – How Can I Verify That My Man’s Work Trips Are Really Work Related?
Listener Wrote: This past year, my man's job has had him do many 'work trips'. Mind you, he has never done work trips in the past but this past year he has had at least five. My 'women's intuition' is rattled right now and I just feel something is up. He of course says it's all work related. I don't want jeopardize his job, but I feel like I need to verify these trips. I want to call his boss and verify, is that too much to do?
HERE IS WHAT TEXAS HAS TO SAY ABOUT IT!
No trust❤️5 trips? Don’t call his boss! Sorry not sorry I would have already followed him. Get your truth but don’t get his boss involved.
Dam a KING can no longer provide for his family without being questioned. Sad just sad
Did they recently get promoted or do they have the same position? If they have the same position, pay me and I will follow him if you too scared to follow yourself! Sounds suspect.
Let him cheat in peace
Is he 5? Why do you immediately go to “call his boss”? Has his role at work changed? Maybe he’s got to travel some now, but if it hasn’t changed then listen to your gut. Follow him and don’t trust him. Or trust him and get over it.
Call his momma lol
I can see the dilemma but you don't have to turn stalker mode.. I travel for my job but I also give my girl reassurance of where I'm at with a picture of the man camp or location I'm at. Sounds like you both need to do better and get it together.
You can't verify. Mind your business and let the man work.
Stop being a toxica
Here's what you do. Next time, come to my house, and we'll talk it over. (Jamaican voice)