Listener Wrote - First date with this guy I met on Tinder was awesome. But now this. He just asked me to be his PLUS ONE at a family wedding he's going to. Um, this would be our 2nd date and I'm not ready to hit up a wedding as his date. I really like him, so I'm worried if I don't go, I might ruin my chances with him. Ughhh, should I go to this wedding that I really don't want to go to?

HERE IS WHAT THE PERMINA BASIN HAD TO SAY ABOUT IT

Malerie
If you like him I say go. This will also help you get a good feel on his family and if you will get along with them.

Gino
Don't go girl! Stay home and watch movies

Jobi
Depends. Is this like a serious family members wedding? If it is… don’t go. That’s a lot for a second date. If it’s like a second cousin and it isn’t that serious and he just needs a date! Go! Have fun!
But if you just don’t feel comfortable going, be… See more

Sara
Go find out how crazy the family is!! Whos full of drama and whos the alcoholic and you will know if you should run.

Kenny
If he cute he can take me instead, bye Patricia

Jerry
Open bar?

Hillary
You know how many girls I took to every family event lol . But he is very nice to ask you to go with him to a wedding that would be an awesome date

Paul
If I were you I would just go have a good time ...keep it friendly and platonic . I doubt anyone is going to even care about you and him and y'all situation ...wedding parties are fun . just go to have something to do . No Need to make it into an issue

Chon
Why is everything set on time frames? I know people that were together 20 years get married and hate each other after 2 months divorced and don’t speak.. also know people that knew each other 2 weeks and happily married 20 years. Do what you think is best for you!

Kirstie
I agree ask how he would introduce you, and if he says as a friend go have a fun time drink it up and do the Cupid shuffle. Who knows maybe you will see a different side of him.... It's always good to know how people act in different situations

Debbie
He asked you to go to a wedding.. not get married. Maybe don't read so much into it.

Valerie
Go!

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